Married Life
For those of you who’s married, You’ll will know that marriage is not an easy journey. Marriage is not a fairytale that a lot of people (girls especially) fantasized as a happy ending and everything just fall into places. To make a good marriage, takes a lot of commitments, sacrifices and efforts and just because you’re in love with your spouse, become engaged and prepared a wedding and thus getting married, it doesnt guarantee that your marriage life will be blissful and perfect.
Maybe initially right up to the "honeymoon period" (and NO, i dont mean honeymoon period as in going for a honeymoon holiday.. but the honeymoon period that I refer here is as the first few months after the wedding.. yes.. during that time, everything just seems to be on cloud nine…) NO wonder people called it.. "newly weds" .. but the period that follows up after that sort of throw us into the reality of life.
Being married means you both will have more responsibilities. The husband will have to work in order to fed for the family and maintain the household and the wife must make sure the house is in order and that the husband is well taken care of. A lot of wives nowadays are working career wife. Both spouses engaged in a day to day routine, makes us take it for granted. Plus, if you have children, you’ll tend to focus more on them and not to your spouse. Things become more hetchic in our life and you tend to spend less and less time communicating with your spouse. Not to mention, after you become a married couple, both inlaws are regarded as part of the extended family in your marriage life, so opinions and actions from them are bound to affect the life and decisions of both of you.
When your marriage life doesnt seems to be the fairytale that you hoped for, everything seems to be crushing down on you. Sometimes when arguments sets in, we start to think if the love is faded? Why are we in this mess? How to make my spouse love me back and how to bring back those spark in order to have a good marriage?
Well, this is where this excellent articles come in.. I will post it in my next blog entry cos as it is quite a long article to read. Do read it.. as I highly recommend it… Cheers for now..
