Sista Bonding
Monday, August 28th, 2006Well.. last week was such a busy..but fun and exciting week for me. Yap you’ve guessed it. We had Visitors… and those visitors were my lil and only sister and her boyfriend from Perth. They went to Hongkong for a week long shopping sprees holiday and decided to stop by KL and stayed in my house for another week long shopping sprees.. boy… can she shop or wat? Tink she almost bought the whole of KL.. hahaha…
Anyway, I had a great time accompanying the two of them eating, shopping, eat again.. then shop again.. hehehe.. We even had a really great time clubbing with my friends, and I was happy to see that both of them really had a fun good time.
Yup.. that was the first time I ever went clubbing with my lil sis… You see, for those ppl who doesn’t know me very well, my age gap with my sis is 5 years difference.. it might not seem such a big age gap now but when she was 17 and i was 22, BELIEVE ME!!… that gaps seems a long bridge to cross… She was this out of control, rebelleous teenage chic (sorry sis, if you happen to read this.. hehe.. but u were, you have to admit)… and I was like this overprotective, mummy-like big Sista.. I do care about my sis a lot.. that’s why I was trying to guide her into a better path… (yeah..yeah.. i know..as for myself, i’ve been there too.. but i was different, I was much sensible.. hehehee..) Anyway… i’m sure we all been thru that phase in our life, but since those "can’t get along" & "getting on each other’s nerve’s" TIME, it seems to me that we just drifted apart as sisters.. and I understand, that during those teenage time, your friends are your universe.. those were the people who you spilled all the saucy secrets in your life.. etc..etc.. not your big sister.. just afraid she’ll leaked it out to mum.. and you’ll be in DEEP SHIT…
Anyway, I’m so glad that now my lil sis is turning 22 yrs old, she had graduated and working in her first full time job, she has grown more mature and our wavelength can at least interlink and I’m so glad that we not only can be sister but also become friend to each other (something that I had always longing for so long..)
I dont know if she feels the same way as I do.. but I do hope so and to hope for more sisterhood bond in the future. So we can understand each other more as a person and to share life long wonderful moments together.. Well.. I guess i better stop right here before i get tooo emotional and mushy..
For those friends out there, what do you think? Do you share the same experiences and feelings??

